Promises made and broken… smile a warm smile, stick out your hand, extend a courtesy and most times a person will respond in a positive way. For most, the promise of a true and lasting friendship is something to be worked on.
A bond established between two or more people often extends far beyond the mutual interest that brought them together ~~ True and loyal friends are rare and for some completely out of reach. Connecting online can be a pleasant experience.
If wishes were fishes, these online relationships would be the start of honest friendship … A subliminal promise of trust, but one hoped for none the less …
A wise person stows expectations in an overhead compartment of their Craft of Exploration, hoping for honesty and friendship, based on shared mutual interests. Whatever else falls out from above or around, the trip can be fun and exciting, and when we are very lucky, enlightening.
This Queen of Mean, this Joker of Junk, and Duchess of Dung broke the basic promises made in human interaction. Lies, back stabbing, bullying, and fraud are just some of what fell out during this trip that was not guided but, instead, manipulated.
The promised shoulder to shoulder walk was in reality, follow the leader … or else. It was a dark and twisted road that once revealed made the choice to opt out very easy.
Because luck and friendship do sometimes collide in cyber space, I found a comfort zone with like-minded posters who had experienced the same horrific treatment and disappointment. One promise to myself now is to trust my inner compass, listen to my own message of truth, and share it with others instead of squashing down nagging questions about intentions and actions.
Another promise is that I will never let someone this pathetic stop me from reaching out that hand in friendship or from accepting it in ~~ TRUST ~~
9 comments:
Very good blog, Pirate.
There are many who will listen to their inner self, telling them who to trust,now.
They say it is darkest before dawn, many of us were in darkness, now we have seen the light, where love, trust, and real friendship can bloom and blossom.
Any time the terrorists succeed in making us afraid, they have won. It's so heartening to know that not even the worst actions of an online fraud-friend can take away your ability and willingness to hold out your hand in friendship. Here's lookin' at you, kid!
Very well said Pirate!To learn from such an experience is good. This blogger would probably love for all who has left her domain to be lonely and miserable.To know they have all found safe haven is heartening to all.
To let one experience ruin my chances of future friendships? Nah! it'll never happen!
Friendship? That semi-retired housewife who blogged the Spector trial doesn’t have a clue how to make or keep online friends since the whole concept of her private board was to Talk Constantly @ Spro****. She actually believes that because she either sat next to or behind accredited journalists at the Spector trial that she has developed long lasting friendships with them. Rich, isn’t it? This just goes to show that she doesn’t know the first thing about what a friendship is. One thing for sure, when the next Spector trial starts, I’ll be reading Kim’s blog at http://thedarwinexception.wordpress.com/ for the latest and most accurate testimony and not the piffle she pens. Word to the wise!
Even better, I'll be there.
FAIR WARNING! Sloppy!
I've got your number and you have no clue.
Your self appointed authority on things you know nothing about will be outed as I see fit. If I were you I'd stay the hell away from the next trial.I suggest you take a few beginning Sewing classes. You are outrageous and offensive with your pathetic self-promotion
Lana was MY friend. You know nothing!
Golf clap.
check this out, especially the comments left:
http://www.abajournal.com/magazine/full_court_coverage/#comments
http://www.abajournal.com/magazine/full_court_coverage/#comments
check it out.
The love is gone.
The Blogger got a story written about her in the ABA journal. Should have been titled: Lies, Falsehoods and the Person Who Creates Them.
Took credit for another sleuth on CTV who found RS's threat to JF. WOW. That takes some brass ones.
The chutzpah. She is a total cockamamie. Cannot discuss her BS any further, I am getting ferklempt.
Well can ewe believe - just found out on of the Stooges claims to have been a Missionary. She forgot to add the second word - POSITION! No crap here....
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